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Ladies and Gentleman, Hostelers and Travelers,

When I heard that Hostelling International was a hundred years old, I was amazed. And that amazement took me on a journey-this time a mental one. And I had some questions….. Where had my first hostel experience taken place? Where was the first hostel built? How many hostels were in the US? How many hostels had I visited? How have hostels changed us?  What will they bring us in the next 100 years?

So, I put on my research hat, and set about finding out. Now, as we know, there are many wonderful hostels that are not affiliated with HI yet. My first hosteling experience was with one of these hostels. My Mother and I took a impromptu vacation to Victoria Canada when I was about 12. And as my Mother tells it, all of the 2 hotels with wheelchair access were either booked already, or  out of our budget. Luckily, a friend mentioned that the University booked it’s dorm in summer as a hostel, with breakfast included. And the dorm was equipped with several wheelchair friendly rooms! This was an early lesson in the magic of hostels for me; it combined easy wheelchair access with a fascinating mix of friendly people from around the world, and great food.

And it seems that my first hosteling experience closely mirrored the genesis of hosteling,  when German teacher, Richard Schirrmann took his class out for a trip on 26 August 1909. They were caught in a thunderstorm in the Bröl Valley, and for the first night of the storm, slept in a barn. However, the second day of the storm, the farmer asked them to move, ( I imagine a bored, rowdy group of boys was quite a handful in a barn)  and so they took shelter in a local school house, where Mr. Shirrmann had an idea, “Why not use school buildings as shelter for young hikers during the holiday?” And so hosteling was born. The next year, he wrote an essay proposing his idea, which was published in a Cologne newspaper, and within 3 years the first permanent hostel was open, at the old castle of Altena, in North Rhine, Westphalia, Germany. This castle was in disuse, though it had previously served as courthouse, prison, home for invalids, poorhouse, hospital, historical society, museum, and even as a quarry. It, like this hostel, was a historic landmark renovated to serve as a hostel, and is still open, though a few things have changed.

One of the things to change is that there are now more than 4000 hostels in the world,  roughly 190 of which are in the States. Hostels now offer wi-fi, wheelchair access, some have in-building bars, and others  have senior discounts. There are hostels in schools, castles, forts, national parks, boats, entire islands, former prisons, lighthouses, tropical rain forests,  in hillsides, and even in tree houses. There’s a word for “hostel” in nearly every language.

I sat down with a pen, a map, and a glass of sherry,

and calculated that I’ve stayed in 38 hostels in 14 countries. In the States, I’ve visited a hostel in Seattle, brought my own ramps to the hostel on Hawthorne, stayed in a hostel at the edge of a swamp in Orlando(which had warnings about making sure to keep the back door closed so gators wouldn’t wander in),

I’ve listened to the blues at the Lake Park Hostel in Austin with the resident cat on my lap, slept off a day of swimming and a night of dancing at a hostel South Beach,

and watched the seagulls from the old military fort in San Francisco.

For me, hostels offer a distinct advantage over staying in a hotel. I usually choose to travel alone. And as a disabled woman, that presents some challenges. I’m pretty self-sufficient, and very adventurous. But if I stay alone in a hotel, there is always a question of  ”What if?” hanging in my mind. What if I fall? What if I drop my hair brush behind the dresser? What if I have a sudden urge to go salsa dancing in Helsinki, but I don’t know where there’s good music?  

Staying in a hostel puts my mind at ease, and serves as an introduction to people and cultures I simply don’t meet in any other way. And likewise, serves as introduction for others to what traveling with a wheelchair is like. I can’t tell you the number of times someone from my room has come up to me, and told me of a friend, or sister, who is disabled, and wants to travel. Usually the first thing they say, is “I didn’t even realize it was possible!”

And then they ask me questions like -”How are you treated?” “Is there a ramp on the train?” “Did you make your hostel reservation months in advance?”

We talk, and exchange emails, and sometimes, years later, I get an email from Mongolia, telling of  a sister in a wheelchair who just completed a trip around Germany, her first time out of her country. Or other times I hear that there’s now a ramp at the hostel in Gotenburg where I stayed 5 years before.

In many cultures, and in many countries, disability is hidden. There are no ramps, curb cuts, or enforceable anti-discrimination laws. My mere existence as a solo disabled American woman traveler is a complete violation of every norm, every expectation that some of my fellow hostelers and maybe hostel staff have.

It’s sort of infectious, really. The more people I meet, and who see how I manage, the more people see disability in a new way. And the more disabled people travel, the more that spreads.  So it’s pretty fun for me to hear that there is now a ramp in Gotenburg, because when I was there, there happened to be a Belarusian soccer team staying at the hostel, who offered to carry me up and down the 5 steep stairs every day.

I think I can safely say that hosteling has changed my life. I particularly love how my experiences have pushed my boundaries. A good example; when I was staying in a converted gymnasium in Copenhagen, there was a communal shower stall for girls. Now, I was pretty young, fiercely independent, and very American, so I decided to wear my bikini in the shower for modesty.  I transfered out of my wheelchair onto one of those molded resin chairs,  and was lathering up when these three Italian girls came over, and basically insisted on washing my hair for me.  There was really no arguing with them.

A public school education from Eugene really hadn’t prepared me in the etiquette of such a situation, so I adopted a rule that has served me well ever since: When in doubt, go with it.

And if that happened to me again today, I wouldn’t even bat an eyelash.  

Once, when I arrived in Budapest, I hadn’t made a reservation ahead, so I was wandering around, looking for the address I had of a supposedly wheelchair friendly hostel. I was quite lost, and didn’t speak a word of Magyar, and for some reason, the people I approached all ignored me, or hurried away. Finally I heard this gruff voice say “Are you American?” and I turned around. There was the most odd, disheveled  man there, and a scruffy little dog. The man was wearing clothes pieced together, sort of like a gypsy, or a pirate, and was probably about 50. He had piercings, and and a hat, and a very, very blue glass eye. His little dog was a mutt, and white and beige and about two feet long.  The man, it turned out, spoke perfect English. He had worked as a cab driver in Chicago, before as he put it, he became a drunk, and as we walked to my hostel he told me his life story. He had been a rebel, and a musician, and had gone off to live in America. He met a girl, got his papers, lived, as he said “As normal a life as  Norman Rockefeller”.

He lost the girl, then the job, then everything. We arrived at my hostel, and I asked about the bags he was carrying. One looked like it had a bunch of carrots, potatoes and meat in it. The other had a large can. “I’m cooking dinner for my little dog” he said, lifting the bag with the carrots sticking out. I asked what the can was. “Oh, that’s my dinner” he said. The manager of the hostel greeted him as an old friend, and then we said our goodbyes.

I soon realized that my attempts to communicate with Hungarians on the street, to ask directions, or where the subway was, were not going well. Every time I approached someone, they would either loudly ignore me, or make the kind of shooing motion reserved for moving chickens away. I was confused.

My hostel was run by a nice Tunisian Man who cheerfully told me that all Hungarians were crazy.

I tried speaking English. WHERE IS THE MUSEUM? More Shooing. I tried yelling. I AM AN AMERICAN. WHERE IS THE MUSEUM?? No luck.

Meanwhile, I was having a blast. There were spas, mud baths and turkish style baths, and caves, and ancient ruins to explore. Everything was perfect, except for the weird behavior of the locals, particularly women in market places. I found a friendly bookstore clerk who spoke English. “They think you’re a beggar” he told me with a shrug. You’re kidding, I said, looking down at my perfectly exfoliated, mud bathed, manicured hands, and new camera.

Yikes. So, with his help, I learned some Magyar. I translated “I’m from the States”, and “I’m a tourist”. No luck.  Finally, after about 5 days of living as an unusually contented social pariah, we broke the cultural code. “I don’t need your help” translated into Magyar was the magic phrase. All of a sudden, I discovered that a lot of Hungarians spoke a little English, and they were exceedingly nice. People invited me to dinner, and gave me flowers, and introduced me to their favorite restaurants.

I met other people with disabilities, and even managed to charm the gigantic, Cloris Leechman like masseuse at the local spa.  

Hosteling teaches us. In many countries, like Poland for example, hostels are even integrated into the educational system. Hosteling teaches us about new languages, and cultures, and it taught me how to pack light, how to keep my wheelchair and all my clothes and makeup from getting in other people’s way, how to ask if a hostel is wheelchair friendly-(don’t ask if it’s accessible, ask how many stairs there are) how to make life long friends in less than two days.

Hosteling promotes peace. Not the kind of world peace that every beauty contestant adamantly wishes for, but the kind of peace built on small kindnesses. Because when we stop, and share a meal with someone, or share a room, or even adventure with them, we can’t help but see them. Not their nationality, or their language, or their disability, just them. Another traveler.

Richard Shirrmann  entered World War One as a reservist after creating the hosteling movement. And  In December 1915 he was in a regiment holding a position on the Bernhardstein, one of the mountains of the Vosges, and separated from the French troops by a narrow no-man’s-land, which his account says was “strewn with shattered trees, the ground ploughed up by shellfire, a wilderness of earth, tree-roots and tattered uniforms.”    

“When the Christmas bells sounded in the villages of the Vosges behind the lines .. something fantastically unmilitary occurred. German and French troops spontaneously made peace and ceased hostilities; they visited each other through disused trench tunnels, and exchanged wine, cognac and cigarettes for Westphalian black bread, biscuits and ham. This suited them so well that many remained good friends even after Christmas was over.

Military discipline was soon restored, but Schirrmann pondered over the incident, and whether “thoughtful young people of all countries could be provided with suitable meeting places where they could get to know each other.”

Several years later he retired from teaching to focus entirely on the youth hostel movement, which he stayed with until eventually he ran afoul of the Nazi government.  After World War II, he worked on the rebuilding of the German association, for which he received the Federal Cross of Merit  in 1952. 

 I’m pretty sure that all of us who here who have stayed in a hostel can think of some small kindness that we gave or received that let us see our fellow hostelers differently. In doing my research, I discovered a story in Oliver Coburn’s book Youth Hostel Story,  that for me, answers Shirmann’s question.

 In 1944, British parachutists shelled a particularly lovely hostel in the Netherlands, which stood on a high sand dune overlooking the town and was being used by the Germans as an observation post; it was grievously damaged. But after the war was over, one of the parachute lads came back with the International Working Party, so that he could say to his friends in the Dutch Youth Hostel Movement:     “In 1944, we destroyed your hostel, we could do no other. Now we have come to restore it.”

So, we’ve made it to my last Question, What will hostels bring us in the next 100 years? Honestly, I have no idea. But I’m hoping for more of the same.

In 1944, British parachutists had shelled this lovely hostel, which stood on a
high sand dune overlooking the town and was being used by the Germans as
an observation post; it was grievously damaged. But after the war was over,
one of the parachute lads came back with the International Working Party, so
that he could say to his friends of the Dutch Youth Hostel Movement:
“In 1944, we destroyed your hostel, we could do no other. Now we have
come to restore it.”
Oliver Coburn, Youth Hostel 
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Highway to Heaven

Fantastic cover art

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Poem published!

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I miss sandstorms and pistachios Sunday September 23, 2007


 

It’s really odd, the parts of our life-little memories-that stay with us after we leave a country.

My time in Central Asia was filled with intriguing diplomacy and interesting conversations, of which I usually remember almost nothing.

What rises in my memory is the exact recipe for a rich yogurt cake, recited to me in the cramped yellow kitchen of a former KGB secretary, and the way a sandstorm begins-a slow white mist swirling into a dervish.

The storms leave sand in the most improbable places, and a feeling a bit like spring-rising and dusting yourself off after having huddled tightly in the invasive dark.

The cake leaves you surprisingly full.

And the pistachios, sold in markets, ground into an oddly colored flour, made into cookies, serve as an underground currency. This is what women pay each other with, for a favor or a kindness, or for the sake of a mutual friend. They chose their husband’s jobs, their son’s wives, their mother’s new dress through a sort of sisterhood, a network invisible to men and coarse westerners. At first I thought I was simply being invited to tea, but soon I noticed a nuance; after an especially agreeable tea I would soon find the wishes hidden in my most casual comments fulfilled. My usually surly bodyguard offered to take me to the private rug market, a frothy bottle of rare fresh whole milk arrived at my doorstep(by way of the friend of a friend of the mother of one of my hostesses), I was suddenly granted access to a previously restricted school. I learned to speak carefully. Eventually, I learned the economy of the pistachio; my gratitude for a favor granted did not come with cookies, but by extending my own tea invitations to houses of influence.

By cracking the shell of that metaphoric nut I entered a world entirely new to me; where women’s relationships with each other were supported by a community, and shaped every aspect of their lives. In a way, it was a greater freedom than I had ever known, by not working through men to conduct business, there was no competition with them. This meant that male standards for decorum and behavior didn’t exist, an odd change for a woman only used to working in men’s proffessions. I loved it. I left with a new kind of permission to be myself, whomever I am with. I also took a new need for female companionship home with me; a trust in pistachios and the similarity of women.

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Saturday April 22, 2006

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buenos_Aires

Buenos Aires is treating me well. Here’s a summary; I arrived, realized my Spanish was atrocious, and set about collecting the most eccentric, crazy group of English speaking people I could find. This being Buenos Aires, that wasn’t particularly difficult. After house sitting for several people, and moving hotels weekly(I’m way too particular about where I live), I’ve settled on living in a dive, with a fantastic roommate. So far the late night discussions on the future of Marxism and wine have kept the peeling yellow paint from giving me a panic attack.

I have been living like a rock star here- don磘 ask for details, just use your imaginations, but a few days ago the weather turned cold, and I saw a picture of Mick Jagger. So now it’s nesting time for me- I bought about a bushel of apples for pie making, and have gotten some serious studying done. So far the book is coming back with only small changes from the publisher, so it looks like a go for this fall- North American fall, that is.

I often miss Portland, and the lot of you. This is a beautiful country, but being a stranger here is not as comfortable as it is in some other countries. I think about taking my friend’s invitation to Mallorca in June, but my plans are distinctly South American now, and change with the weather. I am craving a sense of belonging- to someone, to somewhere, which I never seem to find. I read Capote’s Breakfast at Tiffanys the other day, and promptly annotated my name, travelling. I’m hoping that law school, like my recent 3 day benders, will keep me too busy to feel disconnected.

My Spanish is better. I now sound like a mentally challenged fourth grader. I have class three days a week, and read for about an hour a day. Honestly, I don’t like the language. It’s vague where I want precision, and the local dialect makes everyone sound willingly self important. Argentinians do not travel to non-Spanish speaking countries often, and are unacostumed to foreigners, so they are often unwilling to work through communication barriers, even when it’s simply a matter of accent. I miss the helpful linguistic correction of the Germans.

I love the quality of life here- today, while roaming tree lined streets crowded with old french style apartment buildings, I stopped dead in my tracks. Across the street was a fruit and vegetable stand, crates neatly filled with every color of the rainbow. The sun’s low rays shown across the gleaming produce, and contrasted against the deep green trees. It’s like that here- suddenly you磍l turn a corner and find paradise. The only other place I know with this talent is Paris; and her beauty is more predictable.

I met a stray cat in the park today, a beautiful calico who immediately jumped into my lap, and made herself comfortable. She permitted me to drive my chair with her in my lap, and so we followed the warm sunny spots until dusk.

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Duck and cover, here we go again. Tuesday August 9, 2005

 

 

I just finished reading Blair’s ideas on how to make the UK safer. I especially liked this part:

“The list of “unacceptable behaviours” published by the Home Office includes fomenting terrorism, advocating violence and expressing “extreme views that are in conflict with the UK’s culture of tolerance”. “

Culture of tolerence. How quaint.

While I understand that the obvious success of terrorist tactics in the UK warrents a thorough investigation, and careful consideration of existing intelligence and legal enforcement systems, I do not see this as an opportunity to rewrite broad-scope laws in haste. Forgive me, but isn’t this what “Old Europe” is all about? I fondly remember my German friends chuckling in the kitchen over the brash, young United States headlessly overturning it’s civil rights, and heading off to war in a sand-filled quagmire. I understood that Old Europe had a certain maturity of experience preventing it from doing anything so obviously stupid.

“Special anti-terror courts sitting in secret to determine how long suspects should be detained without charge are now under active consideration, it emerged yesterday………..detention before charge should be extended from the current 14 days up to three months. “

What was wrong with the old laws?? Weren’t thay created to handle all types of illegal acts? If they weren’t, why didn’t they prove ineffective long before now? Where’s the sense of history?

Why are legal changes being considered without a thorough investigation of intelligence first? It has recently come out that both France and Saudi Arabia knew of the planned attacks before they were committed. Was MI5 asleep? Or all busy shagging?

It seems that once again, a logical review and thorough investigation of the circumstances surounding a use of terrorist tactics is being passed over, in favour of a beauracratic interpritation of holding one’s head and screaming.

I can’t wait for Blair to tell me what to use duct tape for, in case of emergency.

http://www.guardian.co.uk/attackonlondon/story/0,16132,1545404,00.html (Secret Courts)

http://www.guardian.co.uk/attackonlondon/story/0,16132,1545168,00.html (France Knew)


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New blog location!

I will move my older blog entries from Yahoo360, Myspace etc. to this location soon. Hi!

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